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Balancing motherhood and study: becoming a counsellor in Afghanistan

While studying to become a Health Social Counsellor in Kabul, Shakiba Safi faced one of the most demanding moments of her life: the birth of her fourth child during the final weeks of training. Her determination to complete the programme reflects the commitment of health workers supporting communities across Afghanistan.

Afghan health social counsellor with her children

When Shakiba Safi enrolled in the Health Social Counsellor (HSC)  Programme in Kabul, she knew the journey would not be easy. A mother of three young children and a dedicated health worker from Laghman Province, she was determined to strengthen her skills so she could better support women and families facing emotional and social challenges in her community.

Shakiba was already working as a Psychosocial Counsellor at the provincial hospital in Laghman. Through her work, she saw how many patients were struggling with psychological stress, family problems, and difficult life circumstances. She believed that further training would enable her to provide stronger support to those who rely on her care.

Supported by the European Union and implemented by HealthNet TPO, the HSC Diploma Programme aims to strengthen psychosocial support services within Afghanistan’s health system by training skilled Health Social Counsellors across the country.

Studying while expecting a child

Participating in the programme required Shakiba to travel from Laghman to Kabul for extended training periods. At the same time, she was expecting a child.

Balancing pregnancy, studies, supporting women in the hospital, and caring for her three young children required determination and careful planning. Her husband and family accompanied her to Kabul so she would not have to face the journey alone. Their support became an important source of strength during the demanding months of training.

As the programme approached its final stage, Shakiba was preparing for her final examinations while staying in the HealthNet TPO dormitory provided for trainees.

During this period, she went into labour earlier than expected. The training staff acted quickly and ensured she was safely transported to a nearby hospital. After giving birth, Shakiba received continued support from both her family and HealthNet TPO’s team during her recovery.

When she returned to the training centre with her newborn child, staff members provided newborn care kits, clothing for the mother and baby, basic food packages, and other essential items to support her wellbeing.

Afghan health social counsellor with her husband and newborn
Afghan health social counsellor with her newborn baby and a colleague
Returning to complete her studies

Shakiba was granted two weeks of leave to recover before continuing her examinations. Despite the physical and emotional demands of new motherhood, she remained determined to complete the programme she had worked so hard to pursue.

With encouragement from her husband, instructors, and the training centre’s management, she returned to sit for her final examinations and successfully graduated.

Her commitment during this challenging period became an inspiration to her classmates and a powerful example for other women in the programme.

Today, as a graduate of the HSC Diploma Programme, Shakiba continues her work in Laghman Province, providing psychosocial support to women and families facing emotional, psychological, and social difficulties. HealthNet TPO remains in contact with Shakiba and continues to follow up on her and her child’s wellbeing.

Inspiration for women and communities

The training has strengthened Shakiba’s ability to listen, guide, and support individuals navigating complex challenges. For her own children, she hopes her journey will show that education and motherhood can go hand in hand, and that perseverance can lead to positive change for families and communities.

Shakiba shares a simple but powerful message:

Even when life becomes difficult, keep learning. With support and patience, you can achieve your goals both for yourself and your family.

Her journey reflects the determination of health workers committed to supporting their communities. Through initiatives such as the HSC Diploma Programme, HealthNet TPO continues to strengthen psychosocial support services across Afghanistan by equipping counsellors with the knowledge and skills they need to serve others.

Through programmes like the HSC Diploma, HealthNet TPO is strengthening mental health support across Afghanistan. Learn more about our work.

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